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Gift Hampers. What 6 gifts would you like to give?

Q) My wife and I are going to start a Gift Hamper business, and instead of the usual food and drink hampers, we think that gift hampers would be a good business to start. So what 6 gifts would you like to give to your family or friend?

A) It all depends on my friend: For Sports fans:: Sporting themes e.g. golf accessories (key rings, display balls, stationery, watches, jokes books etc..) For sportspeople : Packs related to a specific sport including sweatbands, scorecards etc.. Business people: Watch, calendar, diary, signature pen etc... Beauty and health: Jewellry, soaps, brushes, manicure sets etc... Fitness centre subscriptions, Holidaymakers: Travel food and entertainment packs for families. Children: Hampers relating to Cartoons, sports, games, parties... Best of Luck!

Gift Hampers. What 6 gifts would you like to give?

Q) My wife and I are going to start a Gift Hamper business, and instead of the usual food and drink hampers, we think that gift hampers would be a good business to start. So what 6 gifts would you like to give to your family or friend?

A) I think the suggestion of what 6 gifts you would like to receive is very good. Right now I would like - a lovely Moet & Chandon set of 4 champagne flutes in a rose pink stand (saw it in the shop earlier today), a new mascara, a box of flake chocolates, the latest Joanna Trollope novel, a swarovski necklace and some luxurious and expensive shampoo and conditioner to stop my hair from being frizzy. Actually I would also love a Chanel handbag but am trying to be realistic.

Do you buy gifts for your lover?

Q) My boyfriend didn't buy me a birthday gift yet....he said he didn't have time to think about a gift this year because he's overloaded at work, but he will buy something soon. He did take me for a meal...but I am feeling upset. Maybe I am being unfair? We have been going out together for over three years and he usually buys me a thoughtful gift...when its his birthday I do the same. Is this his way of telling me something? I've talked to him about it, and he says he doesn't really get why I'm upset. Would love to hear thoughts about gifts - what do you do?

A) How he treats you on a day-to-day basis is more important than a gift. And he did take you out for a meal. I would let it go, if he is good to you otherwise. I do buy gifts for my guy, but women are more inclined to do that. My guy usually forgets to buy me anything, but he treats me like a princess in other ways.

(To the Woman) Gifts from the guys, what do we really want?

Q) its coming up to your birthday/ anniversary/ easter/ valentines day/ xmas etc. what is the gifts you would NOT prefer to receive? and what would you prefer to have gotten instead? heres an example. i my self wouldent like to get teddies, my room is too small to put a over sized teddy anywhere. if i was to get a teddy from a friend or boyfriend it would have to be a tiny one, but still it would just be put on the side and forgot about my point is, would you prefer to have a gift that u know you can find use of or something thats gonna sit on the side and collect dust? and what about flowers? nice for the moment but dead and in the bin a week later. i guess they can be a good gift as they will only take up needed space for a week. so girls tell me your views of the gifts you have recievd but wish that you had gotten something usefull or something you can wear now and then. dont be too greedy but be honist. ;)

A) I used to get my husband interesting presents for his birthday, for example, driving a Formula Ford car round a racetrack or going up in a glider. Also, when he hit 40, I organised a surprise birthday party with all his family and friends there. It was brilliant! Unfortunately, my husband has failed to reciprocate and my 40th birthday went by unremarked. So, in my dreams I would like to be whisked away somewhere really romantic (Paris would be great) on a shopping expedition then out in the evening to be wined, dined and taken to the theatre. You know, made a fuss off, like I was someone special. Oh, the very worst birthday present I ever got was a Collins Complete Do-It-Yourself Manual. It's sitting on a high shelf gathering dust. If my husband thought I was going to enthusiastically delve into it and start decorating and maintaining our house, he was either delusional or drunk. I exercised enough restraint to avoid bashing him over the head with it! But every time a see the book, I wistfully think of Champagne, Yellow Roses and Chanel No 5 Perfume. Dream on.......

Japanese business delegation and exchange of gifts?

Q) I have a Japanese delegation visiting my work soon. I just know that they will buy us all a small gift, as is customary in their culture. I work for a government organisation and we are not allowed to waste taxpayers' money on gifts for visiting delegations. Whenever we have Japanese visitors we always feel embarrassed at having nothing to offer in return. My question falls into two parts: 1) Do they expect a gift in return? After all, we are the hosting organisation and they are thanking us for our hospitality. Do they expect us to reciprocate, eg as thanks for their interest? 2) If it is usual to expect a gift in return, I would like to make one out of my own pocket. What would be a suitable gift for a Japanese visitor to the UK? There would be about 8-10 people in the delegation and obviously I would like to be respectful while keeping costs down!

A) Gifts Gift giving is very important both business and personal situations Style is everything. The gift itself is of little importance, the ceremony surrounding it is what matters. Always wrap gifts. And choose the paper carefully, don’t give anything wrapped in white as it symbolizes death. Don’t use bright colours or bows to wrap the gift either. It is better to have the place you bought the gift to warp it to ensure that it is appropriate. Give your host some warning during the evening that you intend to give them a present. Don’t surprise your host. Give the gift with both hands and accept gifts with both hands. Generally, gifts will not be opened while you are there. If your host insist that you open the gift they have given you, do so carefully. They take pride in gift wrapping, show that you appreciate the effort. Do not give gifts in odd numbers or the number four, odd numbers are bad luck and four sounds like the word for death in Japanese. Gifts should be given at the end of a visit. Do not admire anything belonging to your host too closely. The Japanese love to please so you may end up taking it home as a gift. Good gift ideas are top choice beef, fruit and alcohol such as brandy, quality whiskey and wine Gestures Avoid using large hand gestures, unusual facial expressions and any dramatic movements. The Japanese do not talk with their hands and to do so could distract your host. The "OK" sign; in Japan it means money. Avoid using it Don’t point …or blow your nose in public Don’t crowd people or stand too close. Because the Japanese live in such a densely populated area, they value their personal space. A smile can have double meaning. It can express either joy or displeasure. Use caution with your facial expressions. They can be easily misunderstood. When meeting anyone in a business environment for the first time, it is customary to exchange "meishi" (business cards). You should always present yours to the receiver using both hands to hold onto the corners as you pass it forward, stating your name and company as you do so. On receiving a person's meishi, accept it with both hands and then study carefully what is written on it. Very often business cards will have Japanese on one side and English on the reverse, so you should be able to understand what is written. If you are in a formal situation, it is proper to place the meishi face up on the table in front of you and refer to it as necessary. If it is in a less formal setting you may put the meishi away after looking at it, but please ensure to put it somewhere suitable. Just dropping it into a pocket maybe seen as rude. When visiting the office of a business associate, you will probably be shown into a meeting room and asked to wait. Most meeting rooms will consist of four or more chairs set around a table. As the honored guest it is important that you take the seat furthest from the door (although that maybe modified if it is a big conference style room) and you should stand up and bow or shakes hands when someone comes in the room. When receiving guests you would reverse the process, with you sitting on the side closest to the door, with the senior member of your party furthest from the door on your side. This "furthest from the door" approach also applies in most other situations, including restaurants, bars, taxis etc etc. Within your own office life can be somewhat more relaxed although a certain amount of ceremony, involving lots of bowing and scurrying around, will be observed when senior managers are present. Generally though a nod of recognition is fine for those you work with, perhaps together with a comment on the weather or a similar subject. On arriving at your office in the morning a loudly spoken "ohaiyo gozaimasu" or "Good morning" should suffice with an equally loud "osaki ni shitsure shimasu" (literally "excuse my rudeness for leaving before you") when you leave at the end of the day. This will in turn be usually answered by a chorus of "gokurosama" or "o-tsukaresama", by those remaining behind. Confrontation is frowned upon and avoided in Japanese society and this applies to the business world too. A common observation that many foreigners make is that it is impossible to get a straight answer from a Japanese counterparty in a business environment and that every request is met with an uncommitted remark. In this situation, it is important not to get pushy but just go with the flow. Even though a definite no or yes is not forthcoming, you more than likely are making progress and you will eventually get to a situation where everyone agrees, although it may not be at that particular time. Try to get a confirmed date when you can expect to receive an answer and make it clear what you are hoping to achieve, while still respecting the integrity of the other party. The final point to be aware of is the perennial worry that both Japanese and foreigners have when they meet - should one bow or shake hands!! It is not uncommon for a Japanese company to require all it's new employees to go through a rigorous training to ensure that they know to what angle they should to, to whom and in what situation. No one will expect you to understand to that level. A simple extended nod of the head followed by a short handshake is probably the easiest compromise, but as long as you show the counterparty respect and politeness, all will be content. Hope this all helps.

why are gifts important for us?

Q) what kind of gift u received recently.........do you think that our gifts are given with equal love and care as in past or they have undergone some change..........what are some of traditional gifts of your culture

A) Exchanging gifts shows how much we care about each other. Gifts, remember, not their worth. With the growing development in science and technology, we've become more greedy and materialistic. We think of gifts in the terms of money, not in the terms of the love they're given with. Where I belong to they don't have anything specific for gifting to others. But, my place is famous for oranges cuz they're very tasty. That is what I gift my loved ones sometimes. They can't get that kind in the market.

why are gifts important for us?

Q) what kind of gift u received recently.........do you think that our gifts are given with equal love and care as in past or they have undergone some change..........what are some of traditional gifts of your culture

A) we all love to recieve gifts! I only recieve Christmas and maybe a birthday gift, maybe a friend might give me a smal gift and I buy my good firends little gift soo. i love giving them, it is funa dnIlook for somethings people will love

Engagement parties gifts or no gifts?

Q) We have been invited to a firends engagement party soon. The thing we need to know is: do you buy the couple a gift or just send a card? As they will get gifts at the wedding and also they are currently living together, so they have every thing already?? Whats the correct thing o do??

A) You're always safe with a bottle of wine and a card.

Gifts for children at children's home!?

Q) I'm looking for some ideas for gifts to take to the kids at a children's home. We've got some teddy bears. What other gifts can we give? It must be something we can get or make before Christmas day, so it will be in time for Christmas.

A) I know they all must not be little children. Teens and tweens like any type of bath and body products, little make up kits, anything to do with beauty, I am referring to girls. Tiny purses like to carry lipstick and change in, etc.

Spiritual Gifts...Question for Christians ONLY --- no sarcasm please...from others.?

Q) What are your Spiritual Gifts? Have they changed over the course of time? (Do you even know what your Spiritual Gifts are? lol.) NOTE: I never asked "WHAT THE SPIRITUAL GIFTS ARE"... I asked: What are YOUR Spiritual Gifts (personally)... that's why only Christians can answer. duh! I think some people are getting mixed up in "Fruit of the Spirit" and "Spiritual Gifts"... and no, I don't think you put in a request for certain gifts....I do think that God bestows "different gifts on different Christians" (according to his main purpose for them...) and I do think that over the course of time "SOMETIMES" Spiritual gifts change - not always. My Spiritual gifts may not be the same as my friends. My main ones for instance is Prophecy, Teaching, and Discernment... My friend has the gift of Mercy, Encouragement, and Hospitality... Another one of my friend's gifts is Pastoring, and Encouragement... Yet another one of my friend has the gift of Giving, and etc...etc... I hope this helps to clearify the question...God Bless.

A) Paul mentions some 20 spiritual gifts in his letters. in Romans 12:4-8 Prophecy, Serving, Teaching, Exhortation, Giving, Leadership, Compassion. in 1 Corinthians 12:4-11Prophecy, Healing, Miracles, Tongues, Interpretation, Wisdom, Knowledge, Faith, Discernment. in 1 Corinthians 12:27-30 Prophecy, Teaching, Healing, Miracles,Tongues, Interpretation, Apostleship, Helps, Administration. and in Ephesians 4:7-12 Prophecy, Teaching, Apostleship, Evangelism, Pastoring. I'm not sure that this list is exhaustive, and certainly some Christians would disagree on some of those included in this list. There is some healthy discussion about whether these all these gifts still appear today, or if some were only for the time of the apostles, and have since died out. As for me, I can see some of these spiritual gifts in me, and as I'm training to be a Church of England priest, at least a couple of them seem to be absolutely essential! Have they changed over the course of time? I'm not sure they've changed, rather that it's now possible to identify them, when previously I hadn't been in a situation where they were needed. I have never experienced for myself some of the more 'charasmatic' spirtual gifts such as prophecy or tongues. But I have friends who have, and I believe that they are given to those for whom it is important to have them. It doesn't make me or them a greater or lesser Christian, we're just all part of the body of Christ, and we have different gifts that make up a complete whole - the church. The Church after all is the bride of Christ, and his intended must be very special!

GIFTs.......?

Q) do u become uncomfortable when u recieve gifts? i do and what do u do when it's christmas or an annaversery etc, and ur present is so much crapper than what they gave u, how awkward is this!

A) then stop being cheap, and spend some money

Gifts???????

Q) I want to get some acquaintaces at school some Christmas gifts, like a little thing for all of them, most of whom I have known for quite a few years and we are friendly but I am not very close to them but I figure I should since it's senior year and I want them to know I like them, because I'm shy and don't talk much and worry sometimes that they don't think that I like them as much as I do. But I don't want them to feel uncomfortable or guilty or obligated to me. I already bought the gifts. At this point it's more should I get them. Btw I'm sort of trying to get closer to them and since I'm shy this helps.

A) Make up a cute little bag of assorted candies with like 10-15 pieces. I did that with my friends at school. :)

Gifts?!?!?!?

Q) I HAVE $300.00 CASH I NEED GIFT IDEAS FOR 4 DIFFERENT PEOPLE I NEED IT QUICKLY...!!!!!!!! PLEASE THANX

A) - mp3 players - gift cards.. (they r good cuz then they can get wat they want) - shoes.. - juwelleries.. - toys.. (barbies, GIJo's, lego's, gameboys..) - novel.. (they can b good gifts too..) - watch - makeup set i donno if they r grls or boys.. n if they r adults or kids that u want to get these gifts to... hope this helps u.... good luck

Gifts.........?

Q) Any of you have a sweet idea for an awesome personalized gift thats extra special for someones B-day...?

A) Homemade cupcakes every cupcake has a letter saying happy birthday "name here" and yea.. simple yet cute i do it all the time and people love it! make a homemade birthday card or something if you would like

Gifts?!?!?!?!?!?

Q) I HAVE $300.00 CASH I NEED GIFT IDEAS FOR 4 DIFFERENT PEOPLE I NEED IT QUICKLY...!!!!!!!! PLEASE THANX

A) Swiss Army knife, flashlight you can attach to a ball cap, American Express gift card. http://www.handlethetruth.net

gifts?????

Q) Ladies, whats the best gift youve ever received? from anyone

A) Well of course besides friendship and family related things, I would have to say...hmmm this is a hard one....a note from my students would be one of the top ones on that list because those little acts of kindness reward me as a person and an educator.

Gifts - Does she not love me as much as before?

Q) I met my best friend in university back when we were still dependent on our parents & didn't hv our own money. Yet, we always got each other gifts all the time. Now we r both married. It's been abt three years since we graduated & she has never given me a gift 4 any occasion (expect 4 a very tiny keyholder once). I've pampered her with birthday gifts (4 each bithday - never missed one). Fabulous engagemnet gift, then a big wedding gift. Then many worthy baby gifts when she got her baby. & more for his birthday.. & gifts from my honeymoon.. On the other hand, although she has never missed messaging me & telling me happy birthday - she has not been giving me any gifts. Not for my engagemnts nor wedding as well. First I thought it was bcoz she didn't hv a job... Then she started working one year ago, but same thing! Am I supposed 2 get a hint that she doesn't love me much anymore? Or is it that she's in deep financal trouble? (We both have the same job & salary)

A) Lots of people are weird about giving gifts depending on what their family did about gifts growing up, but this is different if you both previously got each other gifts all of the time. Are you sure that it was her who got the gifts for you before, or do you think her parents were the ones that made her get you the gifts? I enjoy gifts, and it is not about the money, it is about the thought and the want to celebrate your life with you. I don't know anyone who doesn't bring a gift to an engagement party or wedding. That is just rude. And once again, it doesn't matter what you spend. If the person doesn't have any money, they could make you something or at least send a card. I think you need to talk to her about it. It will be uncomfortable to bring up at first, but if you are questioning your friendship over it, you need to talk about it. Talking to her will answer your question either way, it will either make or break your relationship, but at least it will not be awkward anymore...

Gifts: Does she not love me as much as before?

Q) met my best friend in university back when we were still dependent on our parents & didn't hv our own money. Yet, we always got each other gifts all the time. Now we r both married. It's been abt three years since we graduated & she has never given me a gift 4 any occasion (expect 4 a very tiny keyholder once). I've pampered her with birthday gifts (4 each bithday - never missed one). Fabulous engagemnet gift, then a big wedding gift. Then many worthy baby gifts when she got her baby. & more for his birthday.. & gifts from my honeymoon.. On the other hand, although she has never missed messaging me & telling me happy birthday - she has not been giving me any gifts. Not for my engagemnts nor wedding as well. First I thought it was bcoz she didn't hv a job... Then she started working one year ago, but same thing! Am I supposed 2 get a hint that she doesn't love me much anymore? Or is it that she's in deep financal trouble? (We both have the same job & salary) Okay, maybe we're a little "old" to give birthday presents... But why didn't I get an engagement gift? Or at least a wedding gift? Don't get me wrong, I'm not materialistic and I'm not looking for fancy things that cost a lot - but just the meaning of the gift.

A) see frndship doesn't at all depend on gifts.only ur frnds will care to give u gifts thts for a formality.but best frnds thy dont care thy gave gift or not .becouz thy dont need formality in front of u.neva doubt ur bfrnds love u or not. she loves u of course if ur frndship is true.dont get dipressed, frndship&love is the perfect gift.there is no other gift precious than tht .hope this will b the best answer for ur quuestion. from ur frnd trio

MATH, presents, gifts, and wrapping!!! :)?

Q) 2 cousins were visiting (Gail and Randy) for Xmas. The names of the children in the family were Ed, Lisa, and Judy. The family bought presents for all 5 kids, but forgot wrapping paper. Consequently, the gifts were wrapped in strange ways, although every gift was wrapped in something different. One gift was wrapped in a towel. The kids' heights were exactly 3 in. apart (59, 62, 65, 68, and 71 in.). From the clues below, DETERMINE the height of the child, the gift recieved, and the srtange way in which it was wrapped. 1. The one who recieved a set of Legos is 3in. shrter than the one who recieved a gift wrapped in a pillowcase. 2. The child who recieved shoes is NOT 59 in tall but is shorter than the child who recieved the picture. 3.Randy is shorter than the child who got the belt and one other child, but is taller thn both Gail and the child whose gift was wrapped in a bag. 4. Ed is taller thm the one whose present is wrped in a box 5. The child who got the gift wrped in newspapr is shrter than both Lisa and the child who gt candy 6. The child whose gift was wrpped in a pillowcase is NOT in the same immediate family as the child who recieved the belt. Please show your work and explain your answer! Thanks! :)

A) Names Gail,Randy, Ed, Lisa,Judy Heigth H 59,62,65,68,71 Gift G: Legos,shoes, picture,belt,candy wrappings W: Pillowcase,bag,box,newspaper,towel deductions 1) H(Legos) = H(Pillowcase)-3 W(Legos) <> Pillowcase 2) H(shoes)>59, H(shoes)<H(picture) H(shoes) <> 71 3) H(Randy) < H(belt) , H(Randy)=65, H(Gail)<65, H(bag)<65 W(Gail)<>bag, W(Gail)<>belt so [Gail,bag],Randy, [belt,?] 4)H(Ed) > H(box) 5)H(newspaper) < H(Lisa), H(newspaper)<H(candy) G(Lisa)<>candy 6)Family(pillowcase)<>Family(belt) ... I'll continue tomorrow!!!

Wedding gifts stories from the brides.?

Q) Though most married couples are proud and appreciative of the wedding gifts they receive from family and friends but there are some gifts that makes you go Mmmm. Did you receive a gift that you wasn't pleased with? You wanted to give it back to the person but instead kept the gift and wondering what you are going to do with it. I posed this question because we received a wedding gift (picture frame) that was old and looked like it was sitting in someone's attic for quite sometime. The frame (that used to be gold) paint was chipping off and the box that it was placed in looked as if it was sitting in the sun for a while. I was in shock because I would have appreciated a card instead. What about you ladies that received a wedding gift that you didn't like.

A) I received a obvious re-gifted item. It was one of those white lacy-frilly-puffy photo albums. The sticky pages inside were yellowed. I investigated the item further and on the inside pocket of the photo album- I found a book of wedding matches-from someone else's wedding about 10 years prior!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS MORTIFIED!!!!!!!!!!!!